The discovery of the female G-spot once caused a real sensation, although there is still no confidence that it exists. At the same time, only a few people know about a similar male zone, but every guy definitely has it, and it is much easier to find it. All you need is good lubrication and gentle fingers. And of course, absolute trust, because not every girl will have access to the most intimate.
Where is the G-spot in men?
Unlike women, who have to search for the mystery zone literally at random, guys don't have to guess its location. The point "G" in men, behind which the well-known prostate hides, is located on the front wall of the rectum, about 5 cm above the anus. To the touch, it resembles a tubercle the size of a walnut or chestnut, and it swells when excited.
To find the male G-spot, it is not necessary to examine the anus. You can also influence the sensitive area from the outside. It is located between the anus and the base of the penis, approximately in the middle of the perineum (there is usually no hair in this area). For some guys, the erogenous zone may be slightly shifted to the left or right. To find it, you can ask your spouse or girlfriend to stroke the perineal area with their tongue. From the outside, the prostate can be felt as an almond-shaped seal.
Do all men like to caress the G spot?
Sensations from prostate stimulation can be very different. Some guys experience incredible pleasure (literally - to tears), for others it helps to maintain arousal, for others the pressure on the G-spot seems unpleasant and even painful. But it's definitely worth a try so you don't deprive your man of a special experience. The main thing is to act carefully and slowly, without sudden movements or using force.
A good way to test your response to stimulation of the area is to examine it during masturbation:
- By applying pressure to the area between the scrotum and anus just before ejaculation, the release can be delayed.
- The stroke in the process forces more blood into the penis, making its pulsation stronger and more pleasurable.
- Strong rhythmic pressure imitates the process of prostate contraction, increasing the intensity of the final phase of orgasm.
- For greater pleasure, it is recommended to caress the G point at the moment of maximum erection, as soon as the body of the penis swells along its entire length. If the sensations are unpleasant or imperceptible, wait a little. If there is still no reaction at the moment of full arousal, perhaps this area is not considered erogenous in a particular man. In this case, it is better to focus on stroking the scrotum and penis or come back to explore that area later.
How to properly stimulate the male G spot?
If there is discomfort or insecurity on the part of the partner, the first experiment may be unsuccessful. But it is possible that subsequent research will bring more satisfaction if one can actually break free. Help in such games will be special devices (finger attachments, vibrating balls, small vibrator), which are presented in large numbers in adult stores. You can caress the G-spot in at least two ways:
- From the inside. The finger or toy should be well lubricated and then inserted into the anus 5 cm or more. It should be moved in the direction of the pubis. You can find the sensitive "g" point at the tubercle on the wall of the rectum. And then you have to carefully massage it, observing the man's reaction.
- Outside. Here you can perform stimulation in two ways - orally or manually. A man will be happy to touch the G-spot with the tip of his tongue, which can alternate with passionate kisses. When stroking with your hands, a gentle water-based lubricant will help improve gliding and give your partner more pleasure. With the pad of your finger, you must massage the area with circular movements and light pressure.
At the moment of orgasm, the G-spot will pulsate. To increase the pleasure, you need to influence him in time with contractions. Supporters of Eastern teachings claim that in this way you can delay ejaculation and prolong sexual intercourse. In this regard, the male G zone has been called the "million dollar spot", and sexologists have developed special techniques to delay ejaculation. Such exercises will be useful for sexual dysfunction.
Is stroking the G spot beneficial for a man?
In fact, stimulation of the zone can be compared to a light massage of the prostate. Only the latter is done in a medical facility and does not always bring pleasant sensations, associating men with negativity and discomfort. Caressing the erogenous G-spot in a romantic setting is a completely different matter: both the atmosphere and the presence of a loved one contribute to the pleasure. This is a good opportunity to strengthen relationships and bring a more intimate tone to them.
In terms of health benefits, regular prostate massage will be a good prevention of diseases of the male organ. But only on the condition that there are currently no pathologies on this side, and the massage itself is performed gently, without unnecessary pressure. If G-spot stimulation causes pain or discomfort, it is best to consult a doctor.
It is not recommended to act on the prostate area if a man has chronic and acute diseases of the reproductive system: urethritis, prostatitis, prostate hyperplasia or tuberculosis, urinary disorders, hemorrhoids, fissures in the anus, etc. use light oral stimulation, excluding anal and manual G-spot massage.